How To Find True Love – The No Bullshit Guide

True-LoveI saw lots of guides and steps on how to find true love on the Internet, but very few of them really describe “the process” as it is. That’s why today I decided to offer my best explanation, based, most of all, on my personal experience.

We are social and sensible beings, we have different lives, different experiences, different ways to see the world. Each one of us is unique and this should be the most beautiful thing on earth, only if we remember that.

Beside that, we have something in common, we all have this natural need to be accepted and appreciated by others. I am sure that every single human on earth wondered how to find true love at least once, because each one of us wants and needs to love and to be loved. It is in our DNA.

On the other side, I’m sure you have met those people who say they don’t need to love, that love sucks, that love means pain, but this is only because they had bad experiences and they started to be afraid of love. They keep associating those bad experiences with love, which is so wrong! They judge and label love, only because they haven’t met it yet for real.

So, with this article, I hope to bring clarity in your mind and in your heart. Make yourself comfortable and enjoy the reading!

How Important Is To Understand What “Natural” Means

Natural MeaningThe base of everything is nature and by “natural” I mean everything that governs this world from the beginning till the end and from the laws of nature to the human’s connection with nature.

To be even more clear, I mean there are things we can’t change no matter what we do and the only thing that remains for us in this case is to learn how to accept and embrace them just as they are.

We cannot control the emotions of others, we cannot control the natural flow of life, we cannot change the past, we cannot know the future, but we can be in control of our own lives by being self-aware, by accepting others and ourselves with no judgment, by eliminating fear and by putting passion and love in everything we do.

Nature, Mother Nature, The Universe or whatever you call it has this great, complex, perfect, infinite structure which deals with balance. Actually the main purpose of nature is to maintain balance everywhere, so that’s why we have good and bad experiences, because we have to compensate, learn, evolve and this is available for an entire life.

Scientific Laws consist in statements, propositions or principles that may be inaccurate, while the natural laws are not approximation to the truth, but are literally true.

Once we understand this, we can realize how simple and beautiful life actually is!

The 14 Laws Of The Universe/Nature

The Laws Of The UniverseIn this section I will state the 14 laws of the Universe that are known from more than 5000 years and that govern the world forever.

When you don’t understand the connections between the universal laws, you naturally encounter obstacles. You may feel lost, frustrated and confused about your purpose. It may even feel like virtually everything goes wrong for you, no matter how well you think you’ve planned.

In contrast, people who live their lives with an awareness of the interconnected laws typically report feeling more confident, productive and reflective than ever before. While there is advanced personal work you can do with respect to each law, even starting out with this general grasp of the different laws may make a noticeable difference to the way you feel.

Here is a video with the 14 Laws Of The Universe, for the most visual ones:

1. The Law Of Divine Oneness

This is the fundamental law of the Universe and according to it, absolutely everything in our universe is interconnected. This means that every word, choice, desire and belief you have, will also have an impact on the people in your life and on the world.

Sometimes, this impact can be immediate and obvious, but it can also take a while to manifest. If we are not aware enough, we can even not notice this manifestation.

Each one of us is part of everything around us and awareness of this makes us more powerful as well as more empathetic.

2. The Law Of Vibration

Every particle in the universe is in constant movement and constantly carries energy. This applies to planets and stars as well as it applies to your table and chair.

Everything has its own specific energy frequency. High energy particles naturally attract other high energy particles. Same happens with low energy particles. If you want to live a more productive, full and happy life, consider that you should increase your energy frequency.

3. The Law Of Inspired Action

The Laws Of The UniverseThis law tells us to that we must actively pursue our goals. Many people think that visualizing a goal and developing a positive attitude towards it, will be enough to exploit The Law Of Attraction (which you will find below). It isn’t! We have to take inspired steps towards that thing that we want. Whether it is a big or small step, it doesn’t matter. It will instantly attract your goal closer to you.

4. The Law Of Correspondence

This law is directly related to the fundamental Law Of Divine Oneness. It says that patterns repeat throughout the universe and huge patterns can be found repeating on a very small scale.

Think about the spiral pattern or mandala pattern, that is very popular. If you look more closely you will easily notice that it is almost everywhere (sun, moon, planets, our dreams etc).

Now think about the little changes you can make and remember that this little changes can always repeat on a huge scale. Actually this is the power you have inside you and it is INFINITE.

5. The Law Of Cause And Effect

This is an easy to intuit law and it tells us that all actions have corresponding reaction, not only when it comes to the spiritual aspects of the world, but it also applies to the spiritual aspects of our universe.

Your spiritual life can impact the world around you, causing positive or negative reactions. Similarly, your physical environment can impact on your spirituality, whether for good or for ill.

6. The Law Of Compensation

You will receive what you put on and if you work more than you are payed or asked for, then you will receive more than you expect. On the other side, be careful of how you treat people and everything else, because if you treat them bad, you may receive even more bad in exchange.

7. The Law Of Attraction

This law tells us that like attracts like. So, in order to have the things you desire in life, you have to work out how to vibrate on the same frequency as these things. The more general lesson here is that being positive, proactive and loving attracts more of the same into your life. Meanwhile, pessimism, fear, and lethargy will lead you to generate more negative experiences in all aspects of life.

8. The Law Of Perpetual Transmutation Of Energy

The Laws Of The UniverseThis law tells us that everything around us is in constant flux. You can’t see all of these changes because many of them exist at the cellular or atomic level, but they carry on regardless.

This law is very important because it helps you see how you can trigger positive change. High vibrations can trigger improvements in low vibrations. So if you’re vibrating at a low frequency, someone with high vibrations will naturally trigger energy transmutation in you.

9. The Law Of Gestation

The Law Of Gestation or The Law Of Divine Timing tells us that everything has a gestational period or time to manifest. Every thought, feeling, word and action is a seed. Once nourished with enough focus and energy, that seed will turn into life situation and circumstances.

Your desire, goals and thought will manifest in divine timing and not a moment sooner.

10. The Law Of Relativity

The Law Of Relativity tells us that things are neutral when seen in isolation, so no particular person, action, emotion or experience is evaluated as good or bad until you look at it in comparison with something else.

For example, you may think that you are poor only because all your relatives are rich and you compare yourself with them, but if you look at yourself in isolation, you can’t say anymore that you are poor.

This law helps us to slip into these alternate perspectives and can make us more grateful, and can also show us where we can make improvements in life.

11. The Law Of Polarity

The Law Of Polarity remembers us that absolutely everything has an opposite and that it’s the very existence of these opposites that allow us to understand our life.

So, when you go through something difficult, it will be this thing that will help you truly appreciate the good developments to come.

12. The Law Of Rhythm

Divine TimeThe Law Of Rhythm or The Law Of Perpetual Motion refers to the fact that all things come in cycles. You can easily see this in nature (seasons, the body’s aging process etc). It equally applies to a person’s life stages and if you think about it, you will see this helps you to gain perspective.

Nothing is permanent, so enjoy what you have while it lasts. Alternatively, you can find yourself in a bad period, but this may prepare you for the exciting times that have to come.

13. The Law Of Belief

This law tells us that whatever we fully believe with thought, emotion and conviction, eventually becomes our reality. We are always creating laws for ourselves based on what we believe to be true. Even if a thing isn’t true, our believe will make it so.

14. The Law Of Gender

Even if it’s called like this, it has very little to do with the biological sex. It actually refers to the fact that there are two major types of energy. You can call them feminine and masculine, anima and animus, yin and yang. Each one of us has a certain amount of both energy and we have to find balance between both types, so we can live authentically and happily.

True Love Starts With: Love Yourself!

Love YourselfHow do you expect to know or love someone or something, if you don’t know and love yourself? Or, how do you expect to be loved by others if you don’t love yourself?

If you get to know yourself and master your mind trough meditation (click here to learn more about meditation), you will not only be able to really love and be loved, but you will also find answers to all of your questions, you will find all these laws of the universe written inside you, because everything we find around us, exists also inside us. We are the reflection of the universe, we have infinite love to offer and an infinite power that can make us achieve EVERYTHING.

So before any negative conclusions, make sure you spend enough time with yourself, you spend enough time asking yourself questions and answer them sincerely. Stay true to yourself and others, so they will embrace your gratitude.

Let’s stop running all the same path! Let’s stop trying to follow trends just to be accepted by others. This is not real! It will never be a true acceptance. You always have a choice and you are the only one responsible for everything that happens in your life, so stop blaming others, stop acting like a victim. All you have to do is to make a decision and take action.

True Love Vs Toxic Love

Toxic LoveMost of the people still believe that love consists in a toxic relationship based on jealousy, possession, selfishness, lying and blaming each other. This is so sick!

Love is life itself, with good and bad. Life offers us everything we could ever want. It only does’t put it in our hands. It wants us to make decisions, choices, mistakes, so we can learn, so we can be aware, so we can be ready to receive what we asked for, because big dreams require big responsibility.

All the experiences we have, prepare us for what we want to achieve.

I already said that many times, but I say it again: Failure exists only if you accept it. Otherwise, it is a lesson or even a blessing! The difference between failure and success is only a matter of perspective. Both of them are real. The choice is yours!

Love Vs Fear

Love Vs FearThese two concepts, love and fear are actually opposites. Fear appears where there is no love and love appears where there is no fear.

It took me a while to really understand this, so it is very important to be patient, to take your time. I’m not saying that you should reach your full potential today, because that’s impossible, but start somewhere and don’t ever stop. You are infinite, so if you ever stop is like putting a lock on all your opportunities. Why would you do that, when it is so much to explore out there?

Don’t be afraid to risk and love. Don’t be afraid to push yourself, especially at the beginning of something! Don’t be afraid to be wrong! The laws of the universe will apply sooner or later, so don’t you dare give up on your dreams!

An open-heart will always receive great opportunities and true love!

I will end this article with a fun and cute video about love of Sandra Elia. Enjoy! 🙂

I really hope you found my post useful and if you have anything to add or ask about love, feel free to leave a comment below. Blessings and LOVE!



  1. Awesome!What an incredible blog post; Thanks for this wonderful enlightment.This is an expensive information that is very hard to comeby on any blog and i must say its an eye opener for me.

    The universal laws you expantiated on are on point. One of the laws i found interesting is the law of correspondence because it is divine.

    Thanks for your indepth analysis

    • Hey there!

      I’m so glad you found my post useful! The universal laws are the base of everything in this world and I find it very important for us to be aware of them. That’s why I decided to spread them around. 🙂

      Thank you so much for your comment! Blessings and LOVE!

  2. Thanks for your no BS guide, I found it a compelling read – very in depth and informative. I especially liked the 14 laws you detailed – the law of gender is so true when you sit down and think about it. It’s definitely a “ying and yang” thing…

    Your perspective on true (toxic) love is something that I recognize in people all the time and I very much equate it to an immature kind of love, the kind that you find in the schoolyard (and should be left there!).

    Cool insights that really made me ponder – thanks.

    • Hey, Les!

      You’re right about the toxic love. It should stay in the schoolyard. 

      I believe everyone should be aware of the universal laws. They are the base of truth on earth. Every single human being is unique, special and beautiful and the fact that there are lots of people who don’t know that makes me so sad!

      On the other side, I am so happy you enjoyed my content! Blessings and love!

  3. This is a million dollar question, all my friends and peers all ask me the same question. I have never heard of the 14 laws of Universe before that you for sharing that. I will keep the law of inspired action in mind, keep on pushing myself towards my goal in every aspect of my life. I do agree when you say that True Love starts with Love Yourself 🙂 How can you love someone else first if you do not start loving yourself first? People will find you more attractive in my opinion, when you love yourself and taking care of yourself. You will look more polish and confident. I think that finding true love is a learning process in life. You need to stumble a few times then you can compare the current one with your past experiences. Listening to other people opinion about true love is good but I think we all need to be aware that we are all different in a magical way. Our personality or situation are never the same as the person who is sharing their stories. Don’t be afraid and join the battle like Pat Benatar said “Love is a battlefield lol” Very inspiring post.

    • Hey there!

      Thank you so much for your great comment! You’re right about everything. 

      And yes, each one of us is unique and all of us have an infinite power inside. We only have to learn how to use it, how to find balance and how to love life. It is not easy and it may take a lifetime, but this is actually the real beauty: Enjoy the road to destination and not necessarily the destination itself.

      Thank you for connecting and I’m glad you found my content useful! Blessings and LOVE!

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